
In Union with Krishna |
It
was the early sixteenth century. A distinguished
scholar named Jiva Gosain
was head of the Vaishnavas in Vrindavana. At
the same time Mirabai, the great woman saint
of medieval
India, too resided in the holy city. Once,
the pious lady sent forth a message to Jiva Gosain
that she
wanted to meet him and have his darshan. He
declined,
saying that he would not allow any woman in
his presence. Mira retorted: "O virtuous one, every one in
Vrindavana is a woman. Only Krishna is Purusha (Male).
Today only have I come to know that there is another
Purusha besides Krishna in Vrindavana" Jiva
Gosain, jolted into accepting the profundity
of her statement immediately rushed to Mira's
side
and paid
her due respects.

Radha Washes Krishna's
Feet |
The intense passion of Mirabai, which sought to
model itself on the fervent ardor of the gopis
of Vrindavana, suggests that the lord can be worshipped
very effectively if the devotee imagines himself
to be a woman.

Saints of India
- Sri Chaitanya Mahaprabhu |
This unusual approach finds an influential expression
in the fact that the great saint Chaitanya was
considered by his followers to be an incarnation
of Radha (Krishna's favorite girl-friend). Indeed,
Chaitanya's mystic-ecstatic form of worship openly
encouraged male devotees to imagine themselves
in the role of gopis and it is in Radha's mood
of madhurya-bhava, (the sentiment of love), that
Chaitanya is most frequently portrayed. His golden
complexion is often compared to that of Radha's,
and in general his beauty is praised as unsurpassable.
His followers drenched and sharing in the same
intense experience, often spoke of the great bhakta
being transformed into Radha before their very
eyes:
"The Lord danced
on till it was afternoon. And all the four batches
(of devotees) sang till
they were tired. And in this way the Lord's frenzy
of love grew. It grew to such a height that all
of a sudden the Lord was seen there as Radha."
It seems as if Chaitanya's personality as a sannyasin,
and as a male, was incapable of channeling his
deepest feelings. Only as Radha could they be fully
expressed. There is no indication however that
Chaitanya consciously and laboriously imitated
the gopis generally or Radha particularly. His
frequent possessions by Radha's moods and the sudden
transformations in his appearance are not linked
to any militant regime of role-playing consisting
of remembrance, imagination or imitation. For Chaitanya
the assumption of Radha's mood was coincidental
with his most intense and complete expression of
devotion. It was in no way an aspect of spiritual
discipline and technique, but the ultimate goal
of all devotional activity - the pure and complete
love for the lord.
Chaitanya's identification with Radha, in context
of his highly emotional personality (as suggested
by his biographers), is in keeping with the fact
that the female of the species is the more emotional
of the two sexes, and bhakti being a necessarily
emotional experience, Chaitanya's 'hyper-sentimentality'
found adequate expression in the personality of
Radha whose intensity of passion can said to have
paralleled Chaitanya's own frenzied devotion to
the Lord. Chaitanya's easy and spontaneous participation
in Radha's moods suggests she was a facet of his
personality which enabled him to express his devotion
most completely. His emotional capacity was said
to be limitless, and his emotional expression was
extraordinary. He was completely awash in a sea
of sentiment, feeling and emotion, and he often
behaved like a love-sick girl, restless, moody
and excitable. In addition, Chaitanya was said
to be of a highly temperamental and unpredictable
disposition and he is often portrayed as experiencing
several different moods in rapid succession, or
all at the same time (a decidedly feminine trait):
"And the Lord passed
his days in dancing as the various feelings moved
him. For now it was
remorse, now sorrow, now humility and now impatience,
now pleasure and now patience and now again anger,
that moved the Lord thus. And in all these he passed
his days."

Sensuous Immortals |
This aspect of bringing out the inner woman has
also been referred to in the scriptures, and there
are several passages in the ancient Purana texts
which aver that the gopis themselves were men in
their former births and were reborn as women because
of their desire for a more intimate relationship
with the lord. The Padma Purana says that when
the great lord Rama entered the forest named Dandaka,
the virtuous sages residing in its wild surroundings
desired to engage in lila with the lord. Hence
they were all reborn as gopis in Vrindavana, and
through physical passion they found liberation
from the ocean of existence.
Several eminent saints too speak of losing their
manhood in moments of deepest communions with the
lord. The Gujarati saint, Narsi Mehta, born a century
before Mirabai wrote:

Saints of India
- Narsi Mehta |
"I took the hand
of that lover of the gopis in loving converse.
I forgot all else. Even my
manhood left me. I began to sing and dance like
a woman. My body seemed to change and I became
one of the gopis. At such moments I experienced
incomparable sweetness and joy."
In south India, the eminent Vaishnava exponent
Vedanta Desika used to wear the clothes of a woman
while worshipping Krishna. An annual festival is
still held in Madras in memory of the saint in
which his image, dressed as a woman, is taken out
in procession. Swami Ramakrishna, the towering
modern Bengali saint also strongly believed that
he could best achieve a vision of Krishna only
if he approached him as a woman. As an adult, Ramakrishna
undertook a systematic discipline of devotion as
a woman of Krishna. For about six months he wore
women's clothes and ornaments (sari, gauze, scarf,
bodice, artificial hair) and mimicked the movements,
speech, smile, glance, and gestures of women.
Similar descriptions of
divine romanticism are found in the mystical
literature of other traditions:
the Kabbalah speaks of approaching the Absolute
with the divine passion of a lover, and St. John
of the Cross and other Christian mystics write
of becoming a "Bride of Christ," reserving
one's love and passion only for the lord. For St.
Teresa of Avila, Jesus was the bridegroom, the
spouse, her partner in the spiritual life. Teresa
stresses the need to please the divine spouse;
do not even ordinary women try to please their
human spouses? Consider the following verse from
one of her song's entitled "I am Thine, and
born for Thee":
Take, O Lord, my loving heart:
See,
I yield it to Thee whole,
With my body, life and
soul
And
my nature's every part.
Sweetest Spouse, my life
Thou art;
I have given myself to Thee
What wilt
Thou have done with me?

Andal with parrot
in hand, Melakkarivalankulam. 16th century. |
Teresa expresses the Christian idea of obedience
to the spouse and her poetry speaks of total surrender
to Jesus. Contrast the above with the stark erotic
sentiment of saint Andal of south India (eighth
century), who emphasizes the bride's longing for
the beloved:
Desire for the Lord consumes me
the Lord who measured
the worlds
his power I cannot resist
his slave
I have become-
the moon and the southern breeze
make me restless and full of sorrow
Do not add
to my heartache, O koyil
Do not remain in this
grove
Go to Narayana today
Bring him here
Or else
I shall drive you away.
Andal's longing intensifies and in despair she
addresses a song to the dark rain clouds:
O cool clouds
Go to him who churned the ocean
deep
Fall at the sacred feet
Of the lotus-eyed
Lord
And make this request on my behalf:
Tell him
that my life will be spared
Only if he will come
To stay with me for one day
If he will enter me
So as to leave
The mark of his saffron paste Upon
my breasts.
When in my heart I discover my beloved
When he
comes to unite with me
Holding me in close embrace
Will then you rain upon us?
She appeals even to the deep blue sea:
O deep great ocean
Did not
the lord enter you
Mixing, churning and tormenting
you
Depriving you
of the nectar of your body?
So also has he entered
into me
Taken away my very essence-
Go to the Lord
whose couch is the serpent
Tell him of my deep
distress.
Indeed since ancient times have saints used the
lover beloved mode of address when they approach
their chosen deity. Sringara (the way of the lover)
was an accepted mode of approaching god, and is
listed in several texts as one of the nine ways
of bhakti (e.g. the Bhakti sutras of Narada).
Andal's lover beloved mood found expression in
explicitly erotic imagery. Experts have speculated
on the possible reason for her choice of phrases.
As a young girl, on the threshold of womanhood
and marriage, it was perhaps natural for her to
express her longing for god in terms of sexual
fulfillment. From Vedic times the Hindu tradition
considers marriage as sacrament and lays down that
a young girl be given in holy marriage anytime
suitable after puberty. Andal refused to face marriage
with a human bridegroom. As she saw it, she was
betrothed to Vishnu; she was waiting for him, longing
passionately for him, desirous of fulfillment.
When the soul begins to seek god and yearns for
him, the physical and emotional phase of life and
its external circumstances will naturally influence
the choice of language and imagery. In Andal's
case an intense inner experience was expressed
in terms of physical passion.
Here it is relevant to note that the followers
of Mahaprabhu Chaitanya often visualize themselves
as female companions of Radha, known as 'manjaris.'
A manjari is a beautiful young gopi who is resplendent
with all charming qualities. She is always pre-pubescent
and on the verge of womanhood, or at the most she
is thirteen years old. This is so because, according
to the Vaishnava canon, this age is one of innocence
and emotional intensity.
All over the world, the
achievement of sainthood involves not only the
saint's effort to ascend
to god but also god's responding descent into the
soul, "entering" it and taking possession.
In the text 'Chaitanya Charitamrita,' the lord
says: "According to the transcendent emotion
(bhava) in which my devotees worship me, I reciprocate
with him. That is my natural behavior. "Andal's
desire that Vishnu "enter her so as to leave
the mark of his saffron paste upon her breasts," expressed
with unabashed emotion, is yet appropriate; it
cannot be denied that erotic imagery ideally expresses
the attitude of utter surrender to the godhead.
In the spiritual journey to divine bliss, it has
been said that each individual has his or her own
special kind of "romance" with god. Andal's
romance took the form of an anguished cry to her
beloved Vishnu to come and possess her.
Breaking through the Karmic Bondage of Samsara
by Loving God:

Radha Pines for
Krishna while Her Sakhi Informs Him of Her
State (Narrative Painting) |
The ancient text Vishnu Purana asserts that in
such a committed affection (for e.g. that of Andal
above), the two chains of merit and demerit, both
of which are said to be the fetters for the soul,
are broken. The intense pleasure the devotee derives
from meditating on her amours with god (her chosen
lord) takes away the bonding effects of her good
deeds, and the inner misery which her soul is subjected
to when she pines in the absence of her lord cleanses
her of the residual effect of any sinful karma
and she becomes free.
The Symbolic Significance of Krishna's Circular
Dance:

Rasa Leela |
Once, while dancing with his many girlfriends,
Krishna attempted to make them form a circle. He
failed since each gopi wanted to be near him. He
then took each girl by the hand and the result
of the physical contact was such that each of the
gopis lost her faculty of perception and happily
took the hand of the girl next to her, thinking
it to be Krishna's.
As the dance progressed, the gopis acted and moved
in different ways: one sang on a high and another
on a lower pitch; a third reclined on the shoulder
of Krishna and the fourth received from him his
half chewed betel; one kissed the flowers that
adorned him and another pressed her bosom with
the palms of his hands.
This diversity of movement points to a significant
fact in spiritual life: no two devotees have the
same identical journey. God draws different people
in different ways. He is not the commander of an
army giving one single command to all. He is the
great lover and for him every human being is precious.
He multi-locates himself, leading each devotee
according to his individual disposition. This seems
to be the idea behind the belief that Krishna had
sixteen thousand wives and lived with them separately
at the same time. In one palace he could be seen
being fanned by his wife, in another he played
dice with his queen, in third he was fondling his
son, while in the fourth palace he entertained
his wife with light stories and so on.
The truth of the above assertion is expressed
for example in the lives of Mirabai (who pined
for union with her lord, though without explicitly
emphasizing an erotic intent); Andal (who longed
to be physically penetrated by the lord) and St.
Teresa (who sought a spiritual surrender at the
feet of Jesus). They were all mystics, seeking
to unite with the Supreme Being, each in her own
unique way.
Conclusion:
In the golden words of Swami Vivekananda:
"What love shakes
the whole nature of man, what love runs through
every atom of his being,
makes him mad, makes him forget his own nature,
transforms him, makes him a god as the love between
man and woman? In this sweet representation of
divine love God is our husband. We are all women;
there are no men in this world; there is but One
man - Hari and he is our beloved. All that love
which man gives to a woman, or woman to man, is
here given up to the Lord."
Indeed, since between lovers there are no secrets,
by approaching divinity as a lover we enter into
the mystery of god. There is an inner innocent
girl waiting within each of us, desiring to emerge
and play with our friendly cowherd in an exchange
of love.
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